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Wagner-Elfner and Harkins Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Inc.
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Wagner-Elfner and Harkins Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Inc.
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Patricia "Patty" Trude, 88, of Fawn Grove, Pennsylvania, passed away peacefully on Monday, November 9, 2026, at WellSpan York Hospital.
Born on November 15, 1937, in DuBois, Pennsylvania, Patty spent her childhood and early years in DuBois. Following her marriage to her beloved husband, Guy Oliver Trude, the couple moved to Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, before eventually settling in Fawn Grove, where they made their lifelong home.
Patty was preceded in death by her loving husband, Guy, in April 2022. Throughout Guy's journey with dementia, Patty remained faithfully by his side, lovingly caring for him and ensuring that he had everything he needed. Her unwavering devotion was a true reflection of the deep love they shared and the selfless woman she was.
Above all else, Patty was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She was a generous, loving, and compassionate woman who always put her family first. She was someone her loved ones could depend on, never hesitating to lend a helping hand.
Her grandchildren were truly the light of her life. Whether picking them up from school, taking them to sporting events, or simply being there whenever they needed her, Patty was always willing to help in any way she could. As her family grew, she was blessed with four great-grandchildren, whom she adored. She treasured the opportunity to help care for them and cherished the time they spent together.
Patty was a woman of deep and unwavering Christian faith. She was a longtime member of Mount Olivet United Methodist Church, having previously attended Fawn United Methodist Church and DuBois United Methodist Church. Her church family held a very special place in her heart. She cherished the fellowship and friendships she found there, whether participating in soup and sandwich sales, enjoying church family dinners, singing in the choir, or gathering for Bible study. She was a lifetime member of the Order of Eastern Star.
Patty's faith was not simply something she believed in; it was something she lived every day through her kindness, generosity, compassion, and willingness to help others.
In her later years, following Guy's passing, Patty developed a passion for putting together puzzles. She also enjoyed coloring in her coloring books and finding happiness in life's simple pleasures.
She especially treasured the companionship of her friends and church family, including the occasional trip to the casino with a dear church friend. Patty was blessed with wonderful friends who surrounded her with love and kindness.
They generously gave their time to take her to doctor's appointments, help care for her, and lend a helping hand whenever she needed one. Their friendship, compassion, and unwavering support were a true blessing in her life. Patty leaves behind her loving daughter, Mary Irene Grove and her husband, Christopher Grove; two grandchildren, Matthew Steven Houck and his wife, Julia, of New Freedom, Pennsylvania, and Rachel Ann Houck and her husband, Adam Lynch, of Red Lion, Pennsylvania; and four cherished great-grandchildren, Wesley and Keira Houck and Demi and Colter Lynch. She is also survived by her sister, Mary Lou Bailey of Stewartstown, Pennsylvania; and her brother, Butch Heitzenrater, and his wife, JV, of Milwaukee, Wisconsin. In addition to her beloved husband, Guy, Patty was preceded in death by her brother, Thomas Heitzenrater, and her sister, Gerry.
Patty will be remembered for her generous heart, her steadfast faith, her unwavering devotion to her family, and her willingness to always put the needs of others before her own.
Her life was a beautiful example of love, kindness, and selflessness. Although she will be deeply missed, the love she gave so freely and the memories she created will live on in the hearts of her family and all those who were blessed to know her.
Patty's greatest legacy is the love she leaves behind. Through the family she cherished, the friendships she nurtured, and the faith she lived so faithfully, her kindness will continue to touch lives for generations to come. While our hearts are saddened by her passing, we find comfort in knowing that she is at peace in the loving arms of her Lord and Savior, reunited with her beloved Guy. Her work here on earth is complete, but the love she shared will remain with us forever.
A memorial service to honor and celebrate Patty’s life will be held On Wednesday November 18th 2026 at Wagner-Elfner and Harkins Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Inc., 600 Main Street, Delta, PA 17314.
The family will receive friends from 1:00 p.m. until 2:00 p.m., with a memorial service beginning at 2:00 p.m. In Lieu of flowers the family asks for donations to be made in Patty's name to the American Heart Association. https://www.heart.org/en/?form=FUNUSPGVDBJ
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